Did You Return from Holiday Break Needing a Break?

I have heard several people say they were almost glad to get back to work following a 'crazy' or 'hectic' holiday break. It is very easy to get caught up in the frenzy of the season, and not take time for yourself.

If this describes your situation, I encourage you to spend a little time winding down now and plan to handle things differently next time. You probably need to carve 20 - 30 minutes out of your schedule to just sit and relax. This could be in your favorite chair or in a nice warm bath, etc. I know someone who sits in his car to get a few minutes of peace and quiet. By taking a few deep breaths, you should be able to slow your breathing and catch your breath.


Then spend a few minutes thinking about things that went well or moments you enjoyed or should have enjoyed at the time. This might include the look on someone's face as they opened a present, the quiet moments before you enjoyed a holiday dinner, the deep sigh as you kicked off your shoes after a long day, etc. Think about some of the reasons you have to be grateful for each day.


Then spend a few minutes thinking about things that you didn't get done or people you did not have a chance to connect/re-connect with. Are those things you could still do this winter? If so, how? If you know how, then you simply have to decide when. If not, then is it something that must wait until next November/December or could you plan for them for this spring or summer? Keep in mind, some moments are lost and others can be sort of reconstituted.

But whether your holidays were absolutely perfect, or not at all, I would encourage you to remember to do things to take care of yourself on a regular basis. Plan for and build in time in your schedule to do so. That should be more often than once a year - once a week would be good, but once a month is a start. After all, if you don't take care of you, who will?





Mary Ann Davis is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in private practice providing coaching and counseling for life's transitions; including a job change or job search, as well as loss of job, retirement planning, non-retirement planning, coping with an empty nest, and other life planning issues. She is certified as a Master Career Counselor (MCC) by the National Career Development Association, a Life/Work Counselor by the National Employment Counseling Association, and is a Distance Credentialed Counselor (DCC). Please visit her web site at http://www.yourcareerplan.com/ for more information on her services.


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